Is Your Relationship Based On Math Or Chemistry

Some relationships just don't seem to add up.Relatives, especially, look at a couple and ask, "What does she see in him?" or vice versa."They come from two different worlds!" is another phrase depicting what seems to everyone, but the lovers themselves, an incredible mismatch.What anyone with experience appreciates is that relationships can be based on two things: math or chemistry, but usually not both.The mathematically mated seem to meet each other's needs perfectly, at least on paper. They hail from similar backgrounds, like the same things, and may even look strikingly similar.

Those who have come together based on chemistry seem to mystify the mathematicians.Nothing about them adds up. She's dark and he's fair; she's tall and he's short. He went to graduate school and she has a high school diploma.

She's from the city, and he's from the country.But they bond. That's love and that's the power of chemistry.Mathematical mates seem to reinforce the saying, "Birds of a feather flock together," while the chemically connected are depicted better by the notion that "Opposites attract.

".No matter how you've come together, or what makes you stick together, enjoy it, and leave the bickering about your union to the chemists and the mathematicians.

com, is a popular keynote speaker, management consultant, and seminar leader and the best-selling author of 12 books, including Reach Out & Sell Someone® and Monitoring, Measuring & Managing Customer Service, and the audio program, "The Law of Large Numbers: How To Make Success Inevitable," published by Nightingale-Conant. A Ph.D. from USC's Annenberg School, a Loyola lawyer, and an MBA from the Peter F. Drucker School at Claremont Graduate University, Gary offers programs through UCLA Extension and numerous universities, trade associations, and other organizations in the United States and abroad.

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By: Dr. Gary S. Goodman